We’ve all heard that fashion is a statement. But most people don’t realize how much your style says about your personality. For narcissists, choosing their outfit for the day is more about putting on a show. Their choices are about making an impression, sending a message, or simply standing out. Here are some fashion choices that could indicate you are dealing with a narcissist.
Unusual, Attention-Grabbing Pieces
These people constantly turn heads every time they pass by. That’s because you can find them wearing the most outrageous clothes and the boldest accessories. Most of the time, their clothes don’t even match, but they find a way to make it work. Whether they are heading to Starbucks or on a grocery run, you can expect them to turn any simple errand into a fashion show.
Wearing Items that Feel ‘Exclusive’
Ever tried complimenting something someone’s wearing only to be suddenly stuck listening to a whole story about that item? You get to hear how they know about it, how rare it turned out to be, and what it’s worth. You receive a full breakdown of the world of limited editions and why it is a good investment because of the resale prices. It’s definitely bragging, and it can be exhausting, so you end up making a mental note not to comment on anything they wear again.
Always Wearing High-Heels
There are women who are so used to wearing high heels that they actually don’t know how to walk in flats. You can expect their hiking boots, sneakers, and even their slippers to have some elevated heel of some sort. These women are on their toes non-stop, no matter what the weather or terrain is. While most people might judge their choice to favor style over comfort, you have to respect the commitment.
Highlighter Outfits
Some people love to stand out from the crowd by choosing outfits that make them look as if they are glowing. In fact, you’d probably need sunglasses to interact with them. We’re talking about neon colors and electric hues so loud that they can be seen from miles away. It takes serious confidence to rock such bold colors, but a narcissist won’t have to worry about that.
Constantly Wearing Sunglasses Indoors
Sunglasses are supposed to be worn under the sun, but narcissists love to wear them indoors, especially when they have designer glasses on. Some won’t even take them off inside movie theaters. They might be aiming for an air of mystery, but it really does feel off when you’re having a conversation with them. You have no idea where they are looking or if they’re even paying attention to you.
Heavy Use of Labels
One way narcissists let people know how much they spent on their outfit is to ensure everything they wear has a visible logo—handbag, shoes, belt, you name it. It’s as if their whole identity revolves around brand names and high-priced labels. You know it’s a way of bragging without having to talk about it.
Minimalistic but Expensive Outfits
Some narcissists dress simply, and you’d think they look like a normal person, but once you know the brands they’re wearing, you would be baffled. That plain turtleneck? It costs more than your weekly groceries. Those basic jeans? They could cost more than your phone. They nail a laid-back and effortless look that says “I’m just like you,” yet they are also subtly sending a message to those who can spot high-quality fashion that they belong with the elite.
Overly Revealing Outfits
There’s always that one person who dresses provocatively no matter where they’re headed, and you can always count on them being a narcissist. Whether it’s a grocery run, a casual meet-up, or brunch with the family, you can expect them to show up in a provocative outfit. The weather does not faze them either. Every time they step out the door, they look as if they’re always ready to dance the night away in a nightclub.
Overly Perfect Hair and Makeup
While the point of doing your hair and makeup is to give yourself a glow up, some people take it a step too far. These are the people who look like they’ve just come from a salon, no matter what. There could be tears and sweat, but they always make sure their makeup is on point. It’s as if looking anything less than flawless is not an option.
Refusal to Repeat Outfits
There are some people who think wearing the same thing twice in a month would be a nightmare. Some of them are so conscious that they actually take note and keep track of their outfits to ensure that it will be a while before they wear them again. This irrational way of choosing clothes just shows how much they care about what others think.
What you wear and how you look says a lot about you, more than you think. People can sense if you want to stand out in the room or if you just want to be a wallflower and blend in. Narcissists will always wear something that gathers attention and gives off that “main character” vibe. Now that you know the telltale signs of a narcissist by their fashion choices, you can save yourself from the stress and hassle of dealing with them.
