Marriage brings companionship, contentment, and plenty of happiness, but let’s be real, there are a few perks about being single that even the happiest married women sometimes miss! You have the freedom to make decisions on a whim or simply get to enjoy some solitude. You can even casually date! Want to hear more? Read on:
The Freedom to Do Whatever You Want
When you’re single, there’s no one to answer to. You can spontaneously decide to go out for drinks, stay up late watching Netflix, or lounge around in your pajamas all morning. The freedom to make plans without checking in with anyone is hard to let go of once you’re married.
A Peaceful Night Sleep
It can be lovely to snuggle up to someone at night, but once reality kicks in, you can find yourself struggling to drift off! Hogging the covers or snoring loudly, it’s not synonymous with a good night’s sleep. When you’re single, you get to spread out and maximize the space. Plus, no one is snoring next to you!
Not Having to Share Your Food
The ‘Is that your last bite?’ dilemma is real when you’re married. When you were single, your food was your own. No one would steal your fries or finish off your ice cream without asking. Those little acts of selfishness were a perk of solo dining! A whole plate to yourself, no tasters.
The Joy of Being 100% Independent
Being able to rely entirely on yourself can be a daunting prospect, but it’s also super empowering. As a single woman, you knew that you could do anything on your own, like handling finances or dealing with any problem that arose. Independence was all yours, without needing to consult or compromise with anyone else.
The Freedom to Dress How You Want
When you’re single, you can wear whatever makes you feel comfortable or confident without worrying about anyone’s opinion. You can wear the black dress, or slouch around in the old sweatpants! In marriage, you might find yourself getting more practical or trying to please your partner’s preferences. You had complete control over your wardrobe choices when you were single!
Your Own House Rules
There’s nothing more frustrating than the small daily habits when you live with someone. Even worse, you have to compromise on the house rules! When you were single, you got to set up your own in-house system that worked for you. Composting, shoe-free zones, or organized chaos; no one could tell you otherwise!
The Lack of Relationship Drama
The ups and downs of a relationship can be emotionally draining. When you were single, life was straightforward and drama-free! There were no miscommunications or misunderstandings to deal with, and no fear of breakups. You just focused on your life, your goals, and avoided the tension that can occasionally come with marriage.
Spontaneous Travel Plans
When you were single, you could pack your bags and go anywhere, at any time. You didn’t have to coordinate schedules or consult anyone about your travel plans. The thought of spontaneous weekend getaways, last-minute flights, or solo adventures might feel like a distant memory now that you’re married. Imagine trying to organize that as a married woman.
Choosing Your Own Décor
When you were single, your living space was yours to design, arrange, and enjoy however you liked. There was no compromising on what color the living room walls should be or where the furniture goes. As a single woman, your space was truly your own, a sanctuary that reflected your personality and style.
Having More ‘Me Time’
When you were single, you could plan your own schedule, and you could prioritize self-care, hobbies, or a solo shopping spree without feeling like you were neglecting someone else. Now, you might find it harder to carve out uninterrupted ‘me time,’ especially if you’ve got kids or a busy household. Facials? What are those?
The Luxury of No Expectations
Single life meant there were no expectations placed on you, especially when it came to emotional labor or being a ‘partner.’ You could focus on your own needs without worrying about making sure someone else’s needs were met. What a carefree existence! Minimal responsibilities and no emotional baggage. A peaceful life!
Unrestricted Social Life
As a single woman, you could go out with friends, meet new people, and form connections without having to check in with anyone. Last-minute meetups were all the rage, and often the best times! You could be as social as you wanted without worrying about your spouse’s comfort level or trying to balance couple time with individual time. Freedom!
Having a Quiet Night In
Remember when making decisions was easy? As a single person, you didn’t have to consider another person’s opinions or preferences. You could have a lazy night in, choose your own movie, and decide what you wanted to eat for dinner. No compromises, no debates, just your choice every time. Junk food for dinner? Absolutely!
No One to Annoy You (Or Be Annoyed By)
When you were single, you didn’t have to deal with the quirks or habits of a partner. You didn’t have to put up with someone chewing too loudly or leaving their shoes in the hallway. And the best part? No one had to deal with your quirks either! You could drop crumbs all over the floor if you really wanted to!
Freedom to Casually Date
Being single didn’t mean you had to refrain from male companionship altogether. You could casually date when you felt like it, with no commitments and complications. Remember popping a nice dress on and glamming yourself up? The getting ready was as much fun as the date itself! Being married, the excitement of dating is easy to miss.
